Crowds Or Family? Your Call


$50 bill What the holidays can do.

So many are talking about the commercialism of the holidays. They tie it to Black Friday, August Christmas ads and now “black Thanksgiving!” People are working on holidays. On some levels they are two different things. People are working because a company has asked them to with the hopes that people will come shopping. And the commercialism or cheapening of the holiday.

It is one thing to talk about commercialism and the holidays. It is another to just get through the holidays!  So many bemoan the commercialism of the season and miss out on the coolness of it. I remember a young pastor one year talking about the unbeliever and how the lights of the season might be the closest understanding of heaven for them. I sat there thinking about that for days. I get it. Not everyone celebrates the same way.  turkeyI love the holidays…now. I was not always like that. I went through some rough years before I became a believer. I remember not accepting presents from family members after my parent’s divorce. I recall the feeling of loss after my first marriage dissolved. I tried to participate with friends and some family, but I was lost in everything. I recollect a Christmas morning many years ago and realizing I had become the Grinch, so I got in my truck and drove down to an empty Christmas tree lot and crying. As I looked up I realized there was one small tree leaning up against some pallets. I went over and took it and carried it back to the apartment. I needed Christmas. I needed to tie to my past. I needed something. (I did not know His name was Jesus.)

I think some of the issues of the holidays are who we are and how we perceive things. As believers we often get upset about whether it is holidays or Christmas. We forget what it was like to be of the world.  I get it. But the topic on the table is how we do holidays I think.

We somehow decry the commercialism of the holiday while exercising our own consumerism. Commercialism is the maximizing the profits of a company. Commercialism is a part of capitalism. (I believe in capitalism as opposed to the alternatives.) They walk hand in hand. I believe in capitalism, therefore I believe in commercialism. (Capitalism is market driven.)

I think our problem is we think commercialism has cheapened the holidays. I would submit to you that it is our consumerism that has caused the issue. Consumerism is the encouragement to spend a lot of money on goods and services.

Does it not make sense that if we would just stop buying like that, we would see the end of commercialized Christmas? If you ain’t buying they are not spending to get you in. Stores opening on Thanksgiving? Black Friday? We can stop it by just not going.

I used to be a store owner of multiple locations. I wanted you to buy. I was upset when I realized the mall for one of my locations was going to be closed on Christmas and Thanksgiving!  And then Christ entered my life. I realized my value system had changed.

I don’t like the urgency of high shopping days. (Unless I am on the cash register side!) People are having to go to work on holidays because the consumer is embracing the craziness.  I get it. Special deals! I think it is wrong. Hey of you participate in it, it is your choice, but there are enough articles out there to convince me your best values will NOT be on Thanksgiving or Black Friday.

I want my family to be at home or engaged in something and that is my choice. I respect yours. BUT, if you are going to complain about the commercialism of Christmas and when it starts, then stop participating. Simple. STOP!

Me? I will be home with friends and family. My children and grandchildren’s holiday is not and will not be dictated by toys or electronics. (Another pet peeve. Won’t go there. Be a parent ALL year round and Christmas will not be as stressful. Just saying. J) I will be eating turkey and enjoying the grandchildren. I will receive hugs and kisses instead of being run over by crazed shoppers. My choice.

If this article talks to you think of how precious the gift of salvation was to you. Share that gift this season. And let me know your thoughts.







Written by Lee Johndrow

Lee Johndrow

Lee is on staff as the Prophetic Ministry Leader at the Village Church where he functions as one of the prophetic grace. (You can visit their site at

He is the father of five wonderful children. Married for over 22 years to his wife Tina. 7 grandchildren as of September 22, 2014, with another one on the way! Loving life with family, friends, faith, fun and food!

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